The Argument from Adoption Does Not Prove That Parental Obligations Are Voluntary

The theory of voluntary parental obligations holds that parents acquire obligations to their children by volunteering for those obligations. The claim is that only those who voluntarily accept the responsibility for parenting a child are obliged to do so, and only from the point that they accept this role onwards, and only unless or until they give it up for adoption. The justification made for this theory is based on claims about how adoptive parents gain obligations. The line of argument runs as follows:

  1. Adoptive parents become parents by voluntary agreement.
  2. Adoptive parents have the same obligations as biological parents.
  3. Any parent (biological or adoptive) may legitimately divest themselves of enforceable parental obligation voluntarily by putting up their child for adoption.
  4. Therefore all parental obligations arise from voluntary agreement.

As will be argued in this article, every premise in this line of argument is false, and the conclusion is false too.

1. It Is Not Voluntary Agreement That Obligates Adoptive Parents

The argument that adopters have positive obligations implies that adopted children have an enforceable claim against their adopters. How can this claim arise? It cannot be as a result of contract, since children cannot contract. One might argue over exactly when young adults may be able to consent to their own adoption, but there is no way a young child can be said to consent to being adopted.

Also, any agreement to adoption between the biological parents and the adopters is irrelevant since it cannot explain how the child has a claim on the adopter. It is the child that has the claim and the child cannot consent. The fact that the biological parents and adopters have both consented does not change that.

If the child does have a claim on the adopter, it can only be as a result of tort. A tort claim arises independently of consent or contract. A tort could impose obligations on the adopter as a result of the actions of the adopter. What actions could those be?

The only way that an adopter could have positive obligations to a child is through the adopter being responsible for a child being in a state of peril. As I have argued elsewhere, an adoptive parent effectively removes the child from the obligated caregiver in the child's life, which is the creation of a state of peril, and this gives the adoptive parent a positive obligation to act as the new caregiver.

Even if the biological parents were not fulfilling all their obligations, the adoptive parents are still effectively cutting off any chance that the child has of receiving care from the biological parent. This is the creation of peril, and it is mitigated by the adoptive parent meeting the obligations instead.

Finding an abandoned child and giving it shelter does not create an enforceable parental obligation on the rescuer from the child. Although a rescuer does not acquire parental obligations the minute he saves an abandoned baby, he is temporarily obliged to look after the child whilst in possession of it, and to pass on the child responsibly. This is because a rescuer is effectively precluding the child from anyone else's care in that time and is therefore temporarily responsible for relieving the child's peril during that time. The same temporary obligations apply to foster parents.

Formal adoption differs from rescue or fostering because it entails the exclusion of anyone else from parenting the child. Because of this, formal adoption creates enforceable parental obligations because the adopter is permanently excluding anyone else from caring for the child.

If you tell others not to attempt saving a non-swimmer who has fallen in to a pool because you intend to be the saviour, then you are responsible for relieving that non-swimmer from peril. Having prevented the non-swimmer from benefitting from any other saviour, you now have a responsibility to follow through otherwise you would cause the resultant drowning via creation of peril.

2. Adoptive Parents Do Not Have Exactly the Same Obligations as Biological Parents

The fact that biological parents and adoptive parents both have obligations does not prove that obligations are voluntary. It does not follow that biological parents acquire their obligations voluntarily because adopters volunteer for their role. On the contrary, as argued above, it is the other way around. Adoptive parents acquire obligations in a similar way to biological parents: by tort as a consequence of actions that result in creation of peril (albeit through different circumstances).

The premise that biological parents have exactly the same obligations as adoptive parents is merely an assertion and is not accurate. As I have argued in another post, a biological parent who gives up their child has not legitimately lost their obligation, but rather they have effectively instructed an agent to fulfil the obligation on their behalf. If the adopter failed to fulfil obligations on behalf of the biological parent, the child would arguably still have an enforceable claim against the original parent. In this way a biological parent always has a residual obligation that could be called upon, whereas an adopter has the obligations of a kind of agent. The two are not the same.

3. No Parent Can Legitimately Divest Themselves of Parental Obligations

The fact that the institution of adoption exists is not proof that parental obligation is legitimately optional. As I have argued elsewhere, parents cannot legitimately absolve themselves of their obligation solely by passing on responsibility to an adopter, because a parent's obligation is to the child.. However, if parents are not living up to their obligations, the first concern is the interest of the child.

Accepting the institution of adoption recognises that a bad situation is preferable to a catastrophic situation. If someone fails to comply with their obligations, it is better that they do so in a way that can be mitigated than if they do so in a way that leads to disaster.

It is not legitimate for the pilot of a passenger plane to choose to parachute out mid-flight, but I would still much rather that he made arrangements with someone to take over the plane safely than if he just let go of the controls, parachuted out, and let the aircraft plummet to the ground.

There is no contradiction between the argument that it is in the best interests of children for adoption to be legal and the argument that it is not morally legitimate for parents to give their children up for adoption. Rather, the rationale is simply that in cases where parental obligations are unenforceable, the interests of the children take priority over other considerations.

4. Parental Obligations Arise From Action Not Agreement

The theory of voluntary parental obligations is riddled with problems:

The theory of voluntary obligations is wrong because parental obligations are not voluntary. They are the result of causal action. Parents are those who engage in actions that can cause the creation of a child in a state of peril. Parents are responsible for the state of peril and therefore have an obligation by tort to remove the peril.

Adoptive parents also acquire positive obligations through actions that result in creation of peril: adopters exclude a child from their legitimate claim on their biological parents.

But adoption is not exactly the same as biological parenthood. It is complicated by the fact that biological parents never legitimately lose their obligations, which implies that biological parents are always residually obliged, even when they have given up their children to adopters.

Adoption is a kind of damage control. It is a way of making the best of a bad situation. It does not prove the argument that parental obligations are voluntary.

The Theory of Voluntary Parental Obligations Cannot Hold Fathers Responsible for Their Children

Almost all recent philosophical writing on parental obligations is only comprehensible if you understand that it is written from the starting premise that abortion must be valid. The legitimacy of abortion is taken as a given, and all arguments concerning parental obligations or children's rights are made to conform with this assumption.

The fact that most people who write about the philosophy of the family hold the validity of abortion as a core value and starting premise explains the appeal of the theory of voluntary parental obligations. This theory has a big advantage for pro-choice advocates: it is the only theory which is compatible both with abortion and also with parental obligations. This seems to offer the promise of justifying two incompatible positions together.

If you accept the premise that abortion is valid, logically you cannot accept parental obligations, since the two positions are contradictory. Some pro-choice thinkers straightforwardly accept this inference and therefore deny that parents have any obligations. This was the position that Murray Rothbard and Williamson Evers took. Although I believe they were incorrect, at least their position was logically consistent.

However, many pro-choice thinkers do not want to accept the logical implications of denying parental obligations. Rothbard was honest enough to acknowledge that if you deny parental obligations, it logically follows that parents may legitimately starve their children to death. Although many pro-choice thinkers want a theory that justifies abortion, they do not want that theory to also justify abandonment or neglect.

But the theory of voluntary parental obligations seems to offer pro-choice thinkers a way to have their cake and eat it too. If parental obligations are acquired by voluntary acceptance, then it follows that abortion is valid. A woman can choose not to accept parental obligations, therefore she can legitimately abort a child. However, once a parent has volunteered for obligations, then they cannot later abandon or starve their children. So the theory promises compatibility with abortion but not with abandonment or negligence. This pair of positions is what most pro-choice thinkers want to hold.

However, there are many problems with the theory of voluntary parental obligations. One of the biggest problems is this: If parental obligations only come from voluntary acceptance, then there is no way to hold men responsible for any children that they father. Any man who becomes a father can simply declare that he did not intend to or does not want to have children, and the theory of voluntary obligations would imply that he is free of any enforceable claim on him for parental care.

The advocates of the theory of voluntary obligations are reluctant to accept this clear consequence of their theory. Elizabeth Brake is notable as the only advocate who accepts the logical consequence that men do not acquire obligations to a child by fathering the child. She tries to find a workaround to hold men liable towards the women they impregnate. Her argument is that since pregnancy creates costs to a woman, a man can have some liability for his role in causing her to be pregnant. This argument only relates to the mother and still leaves the child without any claim against the father for parental obligations.

Other advocates of the theory adopt contradictory arguments to maintain that obligations are always voluntary but nonetheless argue that reluctant fathers have obligations even if they do not volunteer for them.

Roderick Long has put forward a mess of double standards in an attempt to provide a theory of parental obligations that would somehow achieve three conflicting aims. On the one hand, he wants reluctant fathers to be on the hook for parental obligations as a result of having sex. On the other hand, he wants reluctant mothers not to be on the hook for parental obligations as a result of having sex (because he wants abortion to be a legitimate choice). And to complicate things further for him, he also doesn't want to legitimise abandonment after birth.

These conflicting aims led Roderick Long to a bizarrely inconsistent theory of parental obligations. He argues that whether a father has any obligation to his child is entirely the choice of the mother, but if the mother does wish it, then the father is positively obligated to provide care based on the father's tacit acceptance of obligations via his action of having had sex. On the other hand, a mother has no positive obligations to her child based on her action of having had sex, but rather if the mother chooses not to have an abortion then this is tantamount to voluntarily accepting the positive obligation not to abandon the child once born. Go figure.

Joseph Millum is another advocate of the theory of voluntary parental obligations who nonetheless tries to argue the contradictory point that reluctant fathers are still obligated even if they don't volunteer. His argument is that social conventions dictate what constitutes tacit voluntary acceptance. In his view, abortion is socially accepted but being a deadbeat dad is not. Similarly to Roderick Long, Millium argues that women can decline parental obligations via abortion but men always tacitly accept the potential of parental obligations by the act of having sex. So men have obligations even if they didn't want a child but women do not. Millum thinks that an explicitly double standard like this is fine as long as it is in line with social conventions, since that is what counts for him.

Why Fathers Have Obligations

There is a theory of parental obligations that has no problem explaining why fathers are accountable to their children. According to the causal theory of parental obligations, this is why parents have obligations:

  1. Parents are those who voluntarily make their gametes available for fusion, usually through consensual sex or sometimes through artificial means.
  2. A forseeable outcome of making your gametes available for fusion is the creation of a child.
  3. A consequence of the act of creating a child is that the child is in a state of peril.
  4. Therefore parents are responsible for the state of peril of their child. This creates a positive obligation as a tort to get the child out of peril. This means raising the child to the self-sufficiency of adulthood.
  5. Since the obligation results from the consequences of the parents' voluntary actions and not their intentions or agreement, parents still have obligations even if they didn't intend to create a child or do not want to be parents (with some exceptions).
  6. Since both parents made their gametes available, both are jointly and severally liable for parental obligations.

Parents have obligations to their children as a result of their actions, not their declared intent. This account of parental obligations is entirely consistent and non-contradictory. It obliges both mothers and fathers. It presents a challenge for most writers on this topic though, because accepting the logic of the argument would force them to reassess one of their most deeply held premises: the assumption that abortion is justified.

Why Libertarians Mistakenly Think Parental Authority is a Homesteaded Property Right

If you put an individual in a state of peril, you have a positive obligation to get them to safety. Not only must you take whatever reasonable actions are necessary to save them, you may also undertake these actions without their consent, if your actions are justifiable in fulfilment of your obligation. For example, if you push someone into a lake who cannot swim, you must get them out before they drown or you will have committed homicide. If you need to pull them back onto land, you must do this even if they are so panicked that they flail around and attempt fight you off while you do so.

This basic principle provides a clear logical grounding for both parental obligation and parental authority. If you accept that parents have a causal responsibility for the peril that children face as a result of creating them, then it is easy to understand why parents are justified in having authority over their children to undertake whatever steps are necessary to get them out of peril. In the case of children, peril ends when the child becomes a self-sufficient adult. So parents are obliged to undertake whatever care is necessary for a child to grow into a self-sufficient adult. This causal theory not only explains what parental obligations are, but also specifies which individuals are obligated to care for each specific child.

However, most libertarian theorists do not view parenting in this way because they have denied the existence of all positive obligations except those agreed to voluntarily (i.e. by contract). When it comes to parenting, this has resulted in libertarians either denying that children have any enforceable claim against their parents for care (as Rothbard and Evers did) or arguing that children only have a claim if parents voluntarily commit to assuming obligations for their children (as Steve Horwitz and Roderick Long did).

This has left libertarians with a big problem when it comes to explaining why parents have authority over their children. In the absence of a theory of obligation, what gives any person the right to claim authority over anyone else? Also, without a theory of explaining why specific parents must care for specific children, why should any particular person have the right to act paternalistically towards a specific child?

Libertarians have attempted to solve this problem by applying the concept of homesteading to parenting. Their line of argument is as follows:

  1. There are no positive obligations, so people only have the role of parent if they voluntarily choose to assume it. All parents are volunteers.
  2. For any given child, there could be competing claims to act as the parent of the child, since multiple people could volunteer for the role. This could lead to conflict.
  3. Libertarianism solves the potential for conflict arising from rivalrous claims by assigning a property right using the principle of homesteading. The rule used is that the property right justly belongs to the first person to perform whatever acts are necessary to make a claim.
  4. Therefore, the solution to who gets to parent a child is to consider parenting as a property right and identify the acts necessary to claim it.

Opinions differ among libertarians on various details, such as what act constitutes homesteading a baby. But all proponents agree on the basic proposition that parenting a child is a rivalrous good and homesteading is the rule used to allocate it.

Those who argue that parental authority is a homesteaded property right imply that parental obligation comes attached to the homesteading of that property right. This is because– according to this theory– everything to do with being a parent is a homesteaded property right. The idea is that one homesteads a bundle of rights associated with the role of parenthood, such as the right to exclude others from parenting the child and the right to exert paternalistic authority over the child.

However, if you accept that parents have causal obligations, then the concept of homesteading parental authority as a property right is nonsensical because parental authority derives from parental obligation. Parental obligation is antecedent to parental authority. Parental obligation provides both the justification of parental authority and the criteria to set limits on it. Therefore parental authority can only be secondary to and derived from obligation. It is only because libertarians do not understand this that they invented the idea of parenting as a homesteaded property right.

The entire theory of homesteading parental authority has been adopted by libertarians because they do not have a causal theory of parental obligation. If they had such a theory, it would be self-evident that the idea of homesteading a child is absurd.

Rights Cannot Be Based on Demonstrated Rationality

According to the theory of acquired rights, an individual starts life without rights and only qualifies for rights once he or she demonstrates some characteristic or ability. One of the many problems of this theory is defining the qualification criterion.

One version of the theory is that an individual has rights when he has the potential to be rational in future. As discussed in a previous post, this argument actually supports the theory of inherent rights, not acquired rights.

Another version of the theory holds that the qualification required to have rights is demonstrated rationality. According to this version, an individual acquires rights once he demonstrates rationality. Therefore, before an individual acquires rationality, he has no rights. This theory is logically indefensible for the reasons set out below.

It Permits Infanticide

If an individual's ability to reason is his qualification for rights, then children have no rights because children are not rational. A newborn baby cannot be said to demonstrate rationality any more than a newborn foal does. Children cannot be said to exhibit rationality until some significant period of time after birth, unless rationality is redefined so broadly that it would have to include all higher mammals (making the theory incoherent).

A norm of withholding rights until an individual demonstrates rationality would logically permit infanticide, since a newborn child cannot be said to demonstrate rationality. This implication is not one that most advocates of acquired rights theory are willing to accept, yet this must be accepted if one is to argue that children only qualify for rights once they demonstrate rationality. Most advocates of the theory choose to ignore this implication and thereby contradict themselves. Occasionally, one chooses to accept the reductio and make an absurd "libertarian" case for infanticide.

It Is a Conflict-Generating Norm

A norm of respecting rights only once an individual has demonstrated any capability would lead to conflict, and is therefore an invalid norm. It is invalid as a moral rule because of the presumption of rights: you can't demand proof that someone deserves rights, you must presume they do until proven otherwise.

It Is a Non-Universal Norm

Any rule for withholding rights until a specific capability is demonstrated breaks the universality requirement of norms as inter-subjectively ascertainable based on relation of person to physical thing. This is another reason that it is invalid as a moral rule.

The failure of a norm to comply with the universality requirement always has disastrous implications. In this case, the idea of rationality as the qualification for an individual's rights implies justification of class rule by a self-declared elite who may judge the rights-worthiness of others (i.e. the self-declared rational judging whether others meet their definition of rational).

Reason Is Intermittent, Rights Are Not

Reason is by nature an intermittent capacity, so basing rights on demonstrated rationality logically entails removing rights from everyone at numerous points in their lives, or else the theory requires an endless list of arbitrary exceptions. Does someone lose their rights whilst asleep? Does someone lose their rights whilst intoxicated? What about if they are in a coma? People in all these cases fail to demonstrate rationality, so the theory would deprive them of their rights or else fall into a mess of contradictions.

Conclusion

Although reason does play an important role in determining the scope of rights, demonstrated rationality cannot be a criterion for rights. The correct role for reason in rights theory is in the theory of inherent rights, described here.

A Child's Potential for Rationality in Future Is an Argument for Inherent Rights

As discussed in a previous post, the theory of acquired rights asserts that a child qualifies as a rights-bearing person once he or she demonstrates possession of some characteristic or ability that confers rights-worthiness.

One version of this theory argues that when a child has the potential to be capable of reasoning at some point in the future, he qualifies for rights. Whatever this argument's merits, it does not support the theory of acquired rights. If rights are based on a child's future capacity to reason, then rights are inherent, not acquired.

If rights come from the potential to reason in future and not from the ability to reason now, then the current characteristics and abilities of the child are irrelevant. It does not matter what a child looks like or can do at present, since this argument for rights is based entirely on something that a child could potentially do in future. The logical implication of this argument is that a child has rights from the moment he comes into existence, since from that moment onwards there is the potential of a future in which the child is capable of reasoning.

Advocates of the theory of acquired rights refuse to accept this logical implication. They attempt to argue that an unborn child only has rights once it reaches certain developmental milestones that are related to a future ability to reason, but not before it has reached those milestones. For example, Jason Sorens argues that an unborn child only acquires rights at six and a half months because at that point the child has various features including "a recognizably human brain" which gives it the "potential for rationality".

However, any arbitrary milestone is completely irrelevant to the basic premise of the argument. As a reminder, the argument is that a child has rights despite his current inability to reason. Rather, he has them because he has the potential to reason in future. The logical implication is that rights are valid from the moment of conception, not from any point in brain development, since from the moment of conception a child is unable to reason but has the potential to reason in future. There is no philosophical basis for arguing that a child acquires rights because of any developmental milestone if that milestone isn't actually changing the child from a non-reasoner to a reasoner.

Advocates of this version of the theory of acquired rights are trying to argue that the potential for reasoning in future is a valid criterion for rights, but it should only be taken into account once some arbitrary developmental milestone has been reached by a child. The entire endeavour is nonsensical. It appears to be motivated reasoning with a particular conclusion in mind: to set aside a window of time in which a child does not have rights so that abortion is not considered a rights violation.

When do Parental Obligations Not Apply?

The Theory of Parental Responsibility holds that parents have enforceable positive obligations to their children because in creating a child the parents are responsible for placing the child in a state of peril.. Given that parental obligation only arises as a consequence of action, there are cases in which a child can come into existence without a parent incurring positive obligations.

Rape

A rape victim would not have parental obligations for any resultant child since the rape victim did not take action that resulted in a child being created. It was the rapist who acted, and thereby forced those consequences on her.

The rapist would have obligations to support the child, although a reasonable legal system would presumably deem him a criminally unfit parent and deny him access, so his obligations would have to be in the form of monetary payments to whoever was the caregiver of the child for the child's support, alongside restitution payments to the victim.

As a side note, the fact that there are no positive obligations in cases of rape victims means that parental obligations do not provide an argument against abortion in those cases. In cases of consensual sex, parental positive obligations do refute the right to abortion, but not in cases of rape. Whether or not abortion is justified in those cases depends on other arguments.

Gamete Theft

In cases of gamete theft, the biological parents would not have parental obligations. One qualification is that gamete owners have an obligation to be responsible owners, since gametes can have such enormous consequences on the lives of innocent others. Rivka Weinberg has argued that gamete owners have an obligation to take the same level of care with their gametes as one must do with a hazardous material.

Presuming that the biological parent did exercise due care, he or she would not incur parental obligations. For example, if a student donated sperm to a respectable university research team for the expressed purpose of aiding a scientific study of sperm motility and his sperm were stolen from the university and used instead to create a baby, he would not have parental obligations. He could not have reasonably expected to create a baby by his action.

Paternity Fraud

A man fraudulently told that he is the father of a child (when in fact he is not) does not have enforceable obligations towards a child, since he is not the one who created the child's peril. Believing a fraudulent obligation claim does not convert the fraudulent claim into a real obligation. The child's legitimate claim is against the natural father. Whether or not the duped man chooses to become an adoptive father is a matter of personal choice for him, but not obligation.

Endangered Life Of The Mother During Pregnancy

If the life of a pregnant mother is endangered by the unborn child, the mother would have a presumptive right of self-defence against the child to preserve her own life. Her self-defence right would nullify her parental obligations, assuming that the risks to her life were not the result of reckless negligence on her part.